Flirting is an incredibly fast and powerful way to attract a woman. Many men struggle with it, not realizing that a few simple flirting tips for guys can dramatically increase any man’s ability to flirt successfully. If you’re interested in mastering flirting, here are some flirting tips for guys that you can use to attract women wherever you go.
You can’t win if you don’t play
Most guys have some level of shyness when it comes to approaching women. Fear of rejection is a powerful emotion, it’s important to learn to overcome it. If you approach a woman in a polite and respectful way, there’s not much chance of an outright rejection. You’ve just got to build up a bit of courage and go for it.
She is her own person and has a right to talk to you or not. Don’t feel that you are entitled to her time. She may not be interested, or maybe she just had a bad day. If you are rejected, be polite about it. A real man can handle rejection without getting angry or bitter. If you approach her with the right attitude, the chances she’ll want to engage with you will only go up.
The best way to catch a woman’s attention and find out if she’s interested is with eye contact. Don’t stare too long, and after a few meetings of the eyes, it’s time to stop ogling and start talking. There’s a fine line here between smooth and creepy. To stay on the right side of that line, smile when your eyes meet.
Master the smile
There’s nothing wrong with practicing your smile in the mirror. There is a lot of subtlety in smiling, and if you can get a few different smiles down, you’ll do well for yourself. There’s no one right way to do it. Your smile can be shy, confident, mysterious or any number of other styles. Find out what works for you in a given situation and use it.
After exchanging smiles or repeated eye contact, it’s time to make your approach. Don’t make a big deal about it. Life isn’t a movie, there will be no song playing, no slow motion, and nobody staring at you. Just do it. Oh, and that world’s best pickup line that you were promised… are you ready for it? Here it is: “Hello”.
Learn to listen
The biggest mistake that men make when they are talking to women is talking too much, specifically about themselves. Show interest in her, ask questions and listen to her answers.
Then ask follow up questions. Reference what she said earlier to show that you were listening. This should be obvious but far too many guys just don’t get it. Do not do more than half of the talking.
Reach out and touch
By all means, you should touch her. Obviously, this needs to be done in an appropriate and respectful way. Ask about a ring or bracelet and touch her hand. If she is wearing interesting nail polish, that’s a perfect opening. If you’re sitting side by side, let your legs touch *but don’t rub them together*. If you’re walking, try to take her arm when you’re crossing a street. If you’re in a bar or club and have to move through a crowd, take her hand and lead the way.
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